
A child centered therapeutic relationship
should involve an atmosphere, where the child feels safe and open to expressing
themselves. A counselor should structure a warm and accepting environment for
the child, and in doing so, not trying to change the child in any way (Smith, 2014).
The child should feel comfortable to express his or her emotions, and
acknowledging the child’s feelings so that they can gather information on their
behavior. As a counselor it is also important to let the child solve his or her
own difficulties, and make sure they assume responsibility for their own
behaviors and choices. In child therapy it is crucial to follow the child’s
lead in the therapeutic process as well (Smith, 2014). The general principle of
respect for people’s rights and dignity comes into play, when fostering a therapeutic
relationship. As mentioned earlier a child must be respected by the clinician, and
the respect for self-determination as well, which goes along with letting the
child solve his or her own difficulties and lead the therapeutic process. Certainly
when working with children a clinician must be responsible. The principle of
fidelity and responsibility expresses that psychologists should establish a relationship
of trust with whom they work with. A clinician must uphold professional
standards and resolve any ethical issues that may arise in therapy. Play
therapy is commonly used for treatment of children and this type of therapy can
give a better insight into a child’s family origin, and also increase a child’s
social interest. The use of play therapy goes along with making sure the use of
assessments are accurate. The ethical code 9.02 explains how the assessment
methods must be appropriate to an individual’s age and competence. Many factors
need to be addressed before the counseling of a child. A clinician must create
an environment where a child feels safe and respected. Letting the child express
his or her emotions, and having them solve their own difficulties by leading
the therapeutic process, is crucial for a professional counseling session.
References
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